Why my dog has a twitter account but my daughter does not

I have been meaning to write this post for some time but to be honest time has escaped me this last month. Little things like being the technical director for TEDxDetroit, running the Chicago Marathon, hiring a project manager, hiring a full time developer, and the birth of my first child have kept my attention. It has been a fun ride filled with a lot of unexpected surprises.

@foxydenardis

As a lot of you know, my dog Foxy has her own twitter account, it is a great way to extend her personality to the world. Twitter is a source for instant information, asking questions and giving feedback to others. Almost immediately upon creating Foxy’s Twitter account she was followed by a handful of other whippets and greyhounds. They have been a great resource of information; twitter connects her to a larger community that just isn’t available in our immediate area.

I wanted something similar for Cecilia. Thinking about the people who would be following her I knew a Twitter account would not work. Only a handful of our family have Twitter accounts and frankly the user experience of Twitter if you are not familiar with it is intimidating. Long term I want Cecilia to choose the social networks she would be interacting with. Who knows if Twitter will be around in 5-10 years and I didn’t want to put her social capital in to a service that could be gone at any moment.

ceciliadenardis.com

I’m a huge fan of owning yourname.com, no matter what it should always be a destination to give public insights about yourself. For me, yourname.com is your resume, it is how the world sees you. Buying ceciliadenardis.com is the least I could do to give her an identity beyond our household.

I was reminded about this while listening to a talk by Clay Hebert at LessConf. The point he makes is when your child is graduating high school with a 4.0 and involved in three sports what is going to make him/her stand out? There will be thirty or forty other students graduating with the same credentials. Having a website where they can develop their writing skills, post about projects they worked on, and be able to explain to the world that what they are doing matters. There is no better way to know someone than exploring someones strengths than to see a history of them.

Using a domain as a single destination give us/her flexibility to what goes on it. Right now I choose to use Tumblr since it requires basically zero setup and is perfect for posting photos, this is what we plan to use it for until she can type. The other great thing about Tumblr is it allows people to subscribe how they want, via the dashboard, RSS or email. A side benefit is each post gets emailed from my email address (looks like I sent it personally) which allows family to reply directly to me. This may seem insignificant but in the past few weeks I have talked to and learned more about distant friends/family members than ever before. Twitter is a great tool but for this audience they just don’t understand it, talk to them about websites and email though and they know exactly what to do.

If you have a child I think the single best thing you can give them is theirname.com. It is cheap and has the potential to significantly help them in the future.

What tools are you using to document your child/children’s lives? Anything public? I would love to hear about what is and is not working for you.

Follow Cecilia DeNardis at: http://ceciliadenardis.com/

4 Comments

  1. Cynthia M. DeNardis
    Nov 25, 2011 @ 21:00:16

    Such a great dad!

  2. Sarah Karolski
    Nov 25, 2011 @ 21:28:35

    Awesome! It is really great that you thought that far in advance about some of the great things she could use the site for down the road. Who knows if that domain name would have been available years from now. Good thinking Nick! Love seeing all the photos on her website right now. Look forward to watching it evolve as she evolves! Go Cecilia!

  3. Clay Hebert
    Nov 26, 2011 @ 10:41:06

    Hey Nick,

    Great post. Glad you liked the talk.

    Reserving the domain is more important, but I do think twitter will be around in five years, and reserving her name @CeciliaDeNardis means you own it. It takes 5 minutes and you never have to use it.

    You can use namechk.com to see whether a handle is available across a ton of social networks.

  4. nickdenardis
    Nov 26, 2011 @ 18:11:31

    Clay,
    You’re right. The Twitter account doesn’t cost anything and would only take a second to setup. Luck enough I have a pretty distinct last name, but for anyone with a more common name it would be even more important.

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